Friday, November 28, 2008

Things I am Thankful for:

I am healthy, and my husband is healthy!

Retirement

Family – Three sons, Wonderful Daughters-in-law and Daughter-in-love, 5 grandchildren, 1 great-granddaughter

Large Extended Family

Friends

Another Safe Day for my son in Afghanistan-which brings him closer to returning home!

Thanksgiving – A time to reflect on what I am really thankful for! We had a great day with family! What a wonderful group we had this year – 16 adults and 7 kiddos:

My 80 year mother, my husband and I

My sweet daughter in Law (married to son in Afghanistan)

Son, his sweet wife and her mom, grandson and granddaughter

Daughter in love (husband's daughter – I have always hated the term step-daughter/ step-mother – I have always been Ginger!) granddaughter, and great-granddaughter

Brother-in Law and Niece (Sister home recovering from surgery!)

Husband's brother and Niece

Nephew with girlfriend and her son

Niece and boyfriend (and soon to be great- nephew)

Nephew and wife and great-niece and great-nephew

We had such a wonderful day- the weather was perfect mid 70s! I baked the day before and was up early to finish dinner preparations! Sweet husband helped me put the final touches on the house, as always I was a little behind! My sweet daughter in law arrived early with my son in Afghanistan on the phone! This is the first time I have spoken with him since he has left the US. He sounded great! He had pizza for his dinner – made me sad. He didn't try to make it to the mess hall because there was a huge line – the Secretary of Defense was there! Son will be traveling to see each of his soldiers in the next 10 days – they are in small groups throughout the area. Pray he is safe in his travels in this area!!! Sweet daughter in law brought mimosas – love those mimosas!!!

We had a wonderful dinner – traditional Thanksgiving menu Included: Fried turkey – prepared by brother-in-law. He has been doing the turkeys for years and they are the best! (I have the bones simmering on the stove to make soup!) Ham, Cornbread dressing and lots of gravy, Mashed Potatoes, Green Bean Casserole, Candied Yams Potatoes, Corn Casserole, Artichoke Salad, English Pea salad, and then the deserts: Pecan Pie, Apple pie, sweet potato pie, Amish bread, Cookies, and Cherry Cheese Cake. Our appetizers were cheese and crackers, chips and a dip I made with sweet potatoes! It was a hit and I will be making it again.

After dinner, all the kiddos and children went to husbands shed to play. Husband has a 30 x 60 shed we built when we moved from our home of 39 years. Husband has collected skate boards, pogo sticks, razor scooters, tricycles and the like for years. The adult nieces and nephews had as much fun as the kiddos! One nephew said we always had the BEST TOYS! Fun was had by all!

Daughter in love and grand-daughter stayed and helped me clean up and put away all the leftovers! I would not have gotten things squared away for a day or two without their help!!!I won't need to cook for quite a while.

Note about husband's brother: He has been on dialysis for 3 years with ups and downs. He is in a really good period! On Thanksgiving Day, he baked cookies for us, ran the 8 mile turkey trot, spend 4 hours in dialysis, then came here for dinner! I am so proud of him.


Fall in East Texas

What fun husband and I had in Tyler this week. We spent a few days with husband's sister and husband. We so enjoy our time with them. They have such similar interests as us. Brother-in-law-RM loves old cars as does husband. RM took husband to see the shop he is having built in his '57 Chevy. It is a beauty!!! We found a '69 Karman Gehia on eBay located in Tyler that we looked at. It was a cute little car, but no air nor heater. I really think I want something with a few more amenities!

We walked each morning. The pines in East Texas have such a wonderful smell! All the trees have changed colors and the leaves are falling. It is such a wonderful time of the year. The weather has been wonderful – in the 70's every day. D made an apple pie with red hots (yum!) I have never been a real good pie baker, but I am going to try my hand at this one. She has a "No Fail" pie crust recipe that is very good. Sister-in-law-D also had a start for Amish Friendship Bread and we made 3 loaves with raisins and pecans. It was really good. I am taking starter home with m e. I made some a few years ago when I was working and just couldn't keep up with it! Now that I am home, I do hope to keep this one going since husband really enjoyed it.

I got a new lap top a week ago and I am typing as we are going down the road home. I got the door buster deal at Wal-Mart for both RM and myself. I think I am going to enjoy this lap top. We also got a web cam today, so that is going to be fun as well. Hope I can get it hooked up with no problem once we get home and I can talk to son in Afghanistan. I am going to have to dig out documentation and software for my router so I can use the wireless function. RM, D husband and I all four played around on the computers. We had 4 laptops set up on their kitchen table!

D and I spent a little time shopping today. I took husband's watch to get a new battery, and found a great turquoise ring. If I can get a good picture, I am going to post it.

Last Sunday, the Family Readiness Group put together Christmas boxes for all the soldiers in son's unit. It was a lot of work, but certainly a worthwhile endeavor. We sent lots of goodies to each soldier, stockings, candy, nuts, etc. Several of the wives had gotten together all the items plus donations to cover all the shipping. One of wives made little containers of Texas soil for each soldier. I know they will enjoy their early Christmas presents. Pray for this group of soldiers as they are going into the harsh winter months. The weather can be unforgiving there! Sweet daughter in love got word today that son will be home in February for leave. So glad he will be home for their anniversary.

It has taken me a few days to post this blog – couldn't get old router to work. While doing shopping at Wal-Mart for Turkey Day – I picked up a new router! Yea!! Yea it only took me about 3 minutes to get it hooked up and running. I am now in the age of communication – with a wireless network at home!

Mercy how time flies by - another week gone and still haven't gotten this posted – On Sunday I baked 12 dozen cookies for the soldiers in my sons unit in Afghanistan. Then on Monday, sweet daughter-in-law and I packed up the cookies and Christmas trees to send to the groups. There are 50+ soldiers at 9 different locations, and one of the wives raised over $800 to send each soldier a Christmas box and the trees to each group. We also sent son several boxes. Our day was very productive completing 16 boxes for mailing.

 

Monday, November 10, 2008

Praying for our Country and our Military Forces

I have been somewhat troubled by the out come of the election and am having trouble coming to terms with how to be positive. I came across the a website for The Presidential Prayer Team ( www.presidentialprayerteam.org) after 9-11. A friend re-introduced me to the web site recenty. It is an excellent web site with positive thoughts, prayers and news on how to view and pray for the state of our country in a very positive nature. I am making a commitment to pray daily for President Bush and the President-Elect expecially for the next 71 days. Since my son is in Afghanistan, I pray for a seamless transition for Bush and Obama and continued support of our military abroad. I also pray for America to remain strong and free. I have copied some statements and an article below that are very interesting (This is a little long, but certainly worth reading).

Let us never forget that government is ourselves and not an alien power over us. The ultimate rulers of our democracy are not a President and senators and congressmen and government officials, but the voters of this country.

—Franklin D. Roosevelt

The new President will surely need our prayers because he and his administration face huge, serious challenges to the health of our nation and to peace in the world - challenges that, in my opinion, neither he nor any government on earth will have the power to overcome without divine aid. So this is no time for Christians to go into the bunkers. No time to wail or moan over our retirement plans. This is a time to repent, to pray more, to give more. It's a time for Christians to lead, encourage, and minister to a faltering country in a faltering economy.—Chuck Colson, November 5, 2008

Bio notes on Chuck Colson on from the BreakPoint.org web site. I had to look up who he was as I knew the name but could not remember who he was.

In 1974, Colson entered a plea of guilty to Watergate-related charges; although not implicated in the Watergate burglary, he voluntarily pleaded guilty to obstruction of justice in the Daniel Ellsberg Case. He entered Alabama's Maxwell Prison in 1974 as a new Christian and as the first member of the Nixon administration to be incarcerated for Watergate-related charges. He served seven months of a one-to-three year sentence. In 1976, Colson founded Prison Fellowship Ministries, which, in collaboration with churches of all confessions and denominations, has become the world's largest outreach to prisoners, ex-prisoners, crime victims, and their families. Colson has spent the last 25 years as head of Prison Fellowship Ministries.

This article is from the Break Point. Org web site:

A One-Track Vote

By Everett Piper11/3/2008
Should Christians Be 'Singular'?
I was recently involved in a Facebook conversation with some friends who argued that Christian voters need to move beyond their fixation on one or two issues and become more concerned about the “breadth” and “complexity” of human rights and economic justice.
Grad Students: “Christians need to vote on more issues than just abortion! Why not consider the innocent civilians killed as a result of the Iraq war or all the women and children killed in Darfur and other countries?”
I am going to ask you some basic rhetorical questions. Sometimes this is the most effective tool in trying to resolve deep-seated differences. When we strongly disagree, we often just talk past each other, and a well placed question can be of much greater value than dozens of well worn arguments. So here goes.
First, when you say that Christians should vote on more than one issue, aren’t you being rather presumptuous in implying that single issue voting is really what “all Christians” do? Isn’t it a bit fallacious to lump “all” of any group of people into one big category? I know—you are likely saying that you didn’t mean “all” Christians, but go back and look at the emotion, tone, and content of your comments. Your all-inclusive critique of those who disagree with you does come through loud and clear and, dare I say, your presumption betrays your argument’s weakness. Such an indiscriminate casting of the net of criticism falls on some very shallow intellectual waters, in my opinion, and I think we should be a bit more disciplined in our logic.
Second, in your argument you hold up abortion and war in juxtaposition and the way you pose your question presupposes that war is wrong. But on what premise do you make this claim? Is it because you assume the value of human life? If this is the case, then aren’t you admitting that the definition of “humanness” is an objective standard that can never be one group’s prerogative to reject or take away? Aren’t you basically saying that all human life is an unalienable right endowed by a Creator and never subject to someone else’s choice, even in the case of war?
You see, this is a matter of ontology and epistemology as much as anything. Does life exist and, if so, how do we define (or “know”) it? If we believe in the objective reality of life and that God is the definer of this reality, then we must never presume to wrestle such “definitions” away from Him and unto ourselves. If the definition of an infant’s life is “beyond my pay grade,” then would the definition of other important matters likewise be beyond human reason and beyond the responsibilities of my job—matters such as the end of life and who has the right to determine it, or the quality of life and who has the right to judge it?
Can you see where the momentum of your ideas takes you? If you implicitly diminish the loss of life through one means (i.e., abortion), you at the same time minimize the very standards you use to condemn the loss of life through other means (i.e., war). You are sawing off the branch upon which you must sit to make your case in the first place. I think I have made my point, so I will stop. But, one last thing: If you agree (as you have said) that abortion is a moral tragedy and that “the fewer abortions the better,” then aren’t you at least by inference admitting that the victims of abortion were/are human in the first place? If so, then the entire argument of “choice” must now be abandoned as vacuous because at no time in legal or ethical history has one person’s choice ever been rightly elevated above another person’s right to live. Has it?
Fourth, I would like to go back to the issue of war. Are you saying that all war is wrong and that total pacifism is your position? If so, great—as long as you are consistent. But if you, like Augustine, believe in a “just war” theology, then perhaps it is erroneous to equate the killing of innocent children with the casualties of war. The debate here must start with the question of what is “just” and who determines its definition. Man or God? Political power or divine revelation? Is the killing of millions under the banner of “choice” of any different moral weight than the loss of thousands as a consequence of a war? If you equate the two and say they are both equally evil then you, by default, should be working as hard to stop one as the other (or maybe harder to stop the one that results in greater quantitative loss?). If you minimize one evil to justify your attention given to another, then you subjectively betray your entire argument as nothing but a personal construct that is no better or worse than the “warmonger” or despot you protest against.
Finally, I want to say a word on the issue of social justice. It is possible that those on the “right” might actually treasure justice as much as those on the “left” and that it is not really a matter of debating values (such as mercy, love, and compassion) as much as it is a debate of methods (i.e., How do we best achieve such goals?). Conservatives might actually cherish freedom, liberty, and justice as much as their liberal brothers and sisters. They just might have a different perspective on how to obtain these things.
Now a personal note: I was once much more “progressive” than I appear to be now. I was pro-choice, and I used to be a lead voice for the “you can’t legislate morality” crowd. But I don’t hold this position anymore for several reasons. First and foremost, I have concluded that it doesn’t make any sense. I mean this literally. There is no sense—no logic, no intellectual integrity or moral consistency—in this argument. Legislation, if it is nothing else, is always based on morality. Otherwise there is nothing to legislate and the entire process becomes meaningless. Wilberforce, Wesley, and a host of others recognized this. At times these great leaders were indeed dangerously close to “single issue voters.” John Wesley famously declared that “you must be singular or be damned,” and Wilberforce, in like manner, spent decades with near tunnel vision arguing to abolish slavery (because he, too, agreed that the definition of personhood was not his to make and was, therefore, not “above his pay grade”).
Oh, and by the way—Wilberforce also felt that it was his responsibility to vote for the “restoration of manners”: a return to the humility, modesty and civility that comes from considering the Law and the Logos as a singular standard better than the baser proclivities of human desire, animal instinct, and personal passion. Maybe “single issue voting” isn’t that bad after all.

Everett Piper, Ph.D., a BreakPoint Centurion, serves as president of Oklahoma Wesleyan University in Bartlesville, Oklahoma.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Election Day finally Over!

This campaign was a long one! Hope our country weathers the new administration and we can move to a better economy. With need to pray for our president, our leaders our nation and our armed forces. We only have 72 days until our president elect takes office. I am following a web site: www.presidentialprayerteam.org that is very good. This is certainly a time to pray for our Country on a daily basis.

What happened to October? Can't believe I haven't found time to post for over 5 weeks!! Boy, the last month got busy - not sure with what, but busy! We made several trips to our little farm place--15 acres in East Texas - mowing and clearing brush (mowing seems to be my life's work!) We went sailing a couple of times - several doctor appointments, sitting with grand kiddos.....I am coming up on a year of retirement, and still never seem to have enough time! I am still loving retirement - I believe God's timeline for me has been wonderful. I know I would have worked at least 3 more years, and I love having the time off from work!

I am in East Texas with my sister at my best friend's for a girls weekend. She lives in Reno, Texas - small East Texas town, only about 20 miles from OK. Her dad has 100+ acres and we went out to see him yesterday. The trees are just barely turning this year, but still the country side views are beautiful. The rolling countryside and acres of farm land are so peaceful!!! A neighbors cow got out and was on the roadside and we herded the cow back to his pasture (by car of course--I am not a real cow poke yet!!!!) We will make the 100 mile trek back to Big D today after church.

I love being here with Paula - she goes to a beautiful little country church. They have about 65 in Sunday School and about 75 or so in their Church service. It is such a joy to attend her church. I came up for a women's conference in October and they had 93 in attendance! It was such a joy and a pleasure.

I was up early for Walmart's door buster sale yesterday - I bought a new lap top for $298!!! Yea now husband and I can get online at the same time. I have had a hard time justifying spending big money for a laptop just for fun stuff. Since Don has found the Internet, I have had a hard time getting him off the computer. I still have to help him some, but he navigates around pretty good - finding lots of sailboat stuff, old car stuff.... He loves ebay and craigslist!!! He always has me finalize all his bids and purchases (hehe!!)